Monday, June 10, 2019

Asking Better Questions

Whenever I find myself in a new social situation, I always hear the same questions. Mostly, “What do you do?” and “How are you?” These are bad questions. They’re bad questions because they aren’t asking specifically what the asker wants to know. “What do you do?” should really be “How do you make a living?” and “How are you?” should be “What feelings are you currently experiencing?” I know, even these aren’t perfect but they’re better.

That’s my goal, to ask better questions. I like to ask, “When was the last time you made something?” I haven’t been able to use the follow up yet, “Don’t you want to?” because I need to figure out how to word it in a less accusatory tone. Of course, people want to achieve and create things but our current culture doesn’t really promote that. It promotes consumption.