Wednesday, September 4, 2019

40 Hours of Waste

Any “work” that is not advancing you toward the professional life you want should not count as work. It is waste. You have bills, sure, but we often times fool ourselves into justifying behavior  that we really don’t want to be doing. If happiness is the goal, and you’re unhappy in your situation, what’s likely to change first? You or the situation? 

We each have 168 hours per week. About 100 are taken for work and sleep. Leaving you about 50 hours to do as you desire. 

How can someone manage s million dollar business in their time and others can’t seem to get $500 saved? Wasting time is easy, usually the easy thing to do is the wrong thing to do. 


Tuesday, September 3, 2019

Ideas spread

One reason that ideas spread is that people like telling other people stuff that they might not know. It can be a nice little ego boost. Who doesn’t like feeling smart?

If you have an idea that you want to spread, tell people and keep telling people, if nobody repeats it, well maybe the idea doesn’t fit your audience. If it does spread, it doesn’t mean you’re prolific, it means that you found a suitable audience. 


Monday, September 2, 2019

Unfair Judgment

If you unfairly judge people negatively that are poor then you’re a bad person. Here’s the thing, the world has enough unfairly judgmental jerks. I don’t want them near me and will do my best to not be one. I qualified judgmental with the word unfairly because sometimes you are justified to judge, say this person is poor because they did something unethical, well, that’s when judgmental feelings are justified. However, judging someone based on who they are and not what they do or have done  is always a non-starter for me. 

Sunday, September 1, 2019

Weight Problems

This is for people struggling with their weight or even worse, have given up on it all together. I want you to write three pages.

One page on why you think it’s okay to keep junk food in your life. 

One page on why you are okay with leading by poor example. 

One page on why you’re okay with cutting your life short and the toll that will take on those that love you. 

I don’t know how to go up to a stranger and ask if they need help. But I can broadcast it. Reach out, if not to me to someone that loves you. Get the help you need. 

It’s not that I’m down almost 40 pounds since last December, it’s that nobody ever said, “Hey, I love you enough to say your weight and activity levels aren’t healthy. Do something about it.”

More important or at least just as is your activity level. Even if you’re bigger than you want to be, starting exercise, 3-4 hours a week is infinitely better than nothing. 


Saturday, August 31, 2019

Doing Your Best

Means you can’t be doing any better. I hope doing my best will happen someday in things that matter. I think of my workouts, I know I can do another set or another rep, but is that actually better? I know what I’m doing is working, the weight I’m pulling or pushing keeps increasing and my reps do too. But what’s the goal?

Best is possible, but best could mean death. If I kept going and going and going, eventually rhabdomyolysis can set in and without treatment, lead to kidney failure and then death. I think I’ll stick to the 3 near failure sets of 8 or so exercises, every other day for the time being. Is it my “best”? No. Am I getting stronger and healthier? Yes.

Think about your actions in regards to the important stuff, physical health, emotional well being, family, relationships, and finances. Can you do better?


Friday, August 30, 2019

On Being Right


Not “who’s right?” but, “what’s right?” Which matters more?

When talking to someone and trying to convince them of something, what matters is that they agree with the idea, not the person. 

Often times people will agree with you to shut you up. What the goal of persuasion should be then is that the idea itself has to be confirmed. 

If you get them to say THAT is right instead of YOU are right, you’re on a better path to seeing a change occur. 

Thursday, August 29, 2019

The Next Big Thing

What is it going to be?

Recently we had the internet. Then we had smart phones. Finally social media and online shopping. 

So what’s next? Robots and automation? Or is it Solar and wind power creating free energy for the masses? Lab grown food? I don’t know. What I do know though, is that it isn’t watching 40 hours of Netflix a week. It isn’t stuffing my face with junk food everyday. It isn’t so many things. 

The next big thing is going to be things, pick something in an area that makes sense and go for it. Or not, the world will accept another customer as well. 


Wednesday, August 28, 2019

What Would You Say?

If you got in a time machine and went forward 10 years into the future, what would you tell yourself?

This scenario is often told in the reverse, but I’ve never heard it proposed this way. 

I don’t know but I think it’s a good exercise.

Arturo, I hope you’re still going to the gym every other day. I hope you’re still writing. I want you to know that no matter what happens, as long as you do the right thing you’ll be okay. I don’t know how much you’re talking to your family but let them know that you love them more often. 


Tuesday, August 27, 2019

Try And Try Again

You tried and failed. Are you done?

You tried and succeeded. Are you done?

If success doesn’t end the pursuit then why do we so often let failure stop us?

Monday, August 26, 2019

Luck

If someone’s successful and they say they’re lucky, listen to them. Their humility will lead you down a better path than anyone claiming that they’re self made. 

“Luck is when preparation meets opportunity,” maybe, or you’re born into money. I don’t like the way people discount luck. If you’re reading this, you’re luckier than those who won’t. 

How do you capitalize on luck? Guts. 

When that opportunity comes, even if you’re not prepared, if you feel like you can make it happen, do so. My brother and I had no business getting a $519k loan back in 2010, but we did, and we sold the house and it worked out well. I’m not saying bet the house on black or red, I’m saying bet on yourself. As long as you can live with the worst case scenario more than you can with the idea of not going for it, go for it. 


Sunday, August 25, 2019

Education vs. Skills

People say that we need a college-educated populace. Why? I mean it sounds good. It sounds wonderful, but it’s not true. I argue that we need a skilled populace much more than an educated one.

What good is a degree in whatever if you can’t use it to create value in this world? What’s worse is that taxpayers are subsidizing these loans with federal guarantees and now there’s talk of taxpayer funded college. It’s madness.

If you want to learn something, you have the Information Superhighway at your fingertips. If you want to spend $40,000 learning something, you better make sure that it’s a good investment and don’t take the debt on if it isn’t.


Saturday, August 24, 2019

Students Loans

How do I know that forgiving student loans is a bad idea?

If college was such a good investment, then student loans wouldn’t be a problem. Everyone would be gainfully employed, making their payments and the world would be better for it.

The world is not better for it.

The fact that there’s a student loan problem is telling us that college isn’t the answer.

College used to be affordable, what happened? Federal officials came up with the horrible idea to back loans. Colleges loved it, tons of new students and they all had their money upfront.

Look where it’s gotten us. Overeducated, underemployed and under-skilled.



Friday, August 23, 2019

Monopolies Are Bad

Look at what DMV employees do with their monopoly. If you make people feel unappreciated, upset and powerless then your business should fail. 

It usually does, but thanks to monopoly, it doesn’t. 

What they put people through would never fly in the private sector.  It comes down to one main issue. Power. Whenever power is in play abuse will likely follow. 

If your job has policies that make no sense or you’re tasked to do things that don’t make sense then fix them. Even if you have a monopoly, how hard is it to be a decent human being? 


Thursday, August 22, 2019

Immigration

Here’s a solution, jail the employers and managers, 1 year per employee.

As long as employers aren’t punished they’ll keep exploiting cheap labor. As long as we do nothing we’re complicit in their exploitation. The federal minimum wage law says very plainly that each employer must pay each of his employees $7.25 an hour. There’s no mention of legal status to work. So where’s the justice? Where’s the equality? Not here. 

I think it comes from the idea that we’ve been fed for so long, that something is better than nothing. Maybe it’s true, but it isn’t legal. I don’t think every law on the books is just or right, but this one is. I think it’s criminally low, but we need a bottom for sure. 

When we allow the most vulnerable to be criminalized and the wealthy to go free we really show what this nation has thus far stood for. 

Maybe my solution is simplistic and naive. But I know one thing for certain, we can do better. 

Wednesday, August 21, 2019

Healthcare

Is it something that everyone should have access to? Yes, but not in its current form. In its current form, it’s largely ineffective. 

Why is it okay to abuse our bodies by ingesting chemicals and food like products until we’re sick? Why should this behavior be subsidized by other people on insurance plans or even by force via taxation?

The problem isn’t healthcare, it’s that we don’t care. We call critics shamers and whistleblowers conspiracy theorists. While preventable deaths outnumber murders by at least ten to one, which do we focus on? 

People say that it’s their choice when it comes to food but have no problem with people being caged for narcotics. I’ve already explained how sugar is a drug. Heart disease kills 600,000 Americans a year. Cocaine kills 14,000. 

As long as healthcare means pills and not lifestyle alterations, what are we really doing?


Tuesday, August 20, 2019

Paying People Less


80% of people hate their jobs. 

What would happen if they got paid more? They might save up and quit. This is why employers will exploit, (pay less than they can), every employee for as long as possible. 

If an employer has someone stuck in the Zombie Loop and living paycheck to paycheck, then why would they ever willingly give that up? They have guaranteed profitable labor. All they have to do is kick back and watch their employees bring in the money. 


Monday, August 19, 2019

What Would You Say?

If you got in a time machine and went forward 10 years into the future, what would you tell yourself?

This scenario is often told in the reverse, but I’ve never heard it proposed this way. 

I don’t know but I think it’s a good exercise.

Arturo, I hope you’re still going to the gym every other day. I hope you’re still writing. I want you to know that no matter what happens, as long as you do the right thing you’ll be okay. I don’t know how much you’re talking to your family but let them know that you love them more often. 


Sunday, August 18, 2019

Is Your Arena Big Enough?

Top 10% of managers make a good living, top 10% of rappers don’t. 

I’d say the top 10% of 1% when it comes to rappers make a living and less than that are rich. So in your life, what arena are you playing in? Is the arena big enough to succeed or do you need to be that top 1% of 1% to really make it? Often times we go into things not understanding just how small the chances are of winning. 

Whatever you plan on doing, make sure you know what odds are stacked against you and more importantly the effort and actions required to overcome them.


Saturday, August 17, 2019

If You Hired Me

If you hired me to be your boss for a day, what would I have you do? What changes would I suggest for you to change in your life that are crystal clear? What should you be doing and why aren't you doing it?

I’m reading Good Strategy Bad Strategy by Richard P. Rumelt and just got a lightbulb moment in Chapter 4. One high level executive asked another, “If we got replaced, what would our replacements do right away? So why aren’t we doing that?”

It made me think, well, I’m the boss or executive of my own life, if I hired someone for a day, what would they say to change? 

The point is, we have to continually strive for better if we’re to be successful and fulfilled. The key is knowing what we should be doing and executing. 


Friday, August 16, 2019

Influencers vs. Influential

Googling those two words will yield completely different results. One shows fashion icons, the other societal and cultural titans.

It’s the difference between your WCW and MLK Jr. Which do you aim to be? Which would you rather follow?

If we want to be greater than our past selves, we must do more of the right things. Who You Could Be is mostly up to you.


Thursday, August 15, 2019

Zombie Loop

What can you do that will provide the most value to the world?

I don’t know exactly what it is for me. But I know what it isn’t.

It isn’t going to work on Monday, to come home, to watch TV, to go to bed, to wake up to repeat this cycle until Friday. Just to have a couple days off, to dread Monday but then repeat the cycle all over again. This is the Zombie Loop.


Wednesday, August 14, 2019

Women

Because I’m not a woman, I have nothing to say in matters regarding women.


Tuesday, August 13, 2019

Minimum Wage

$15 an hour minimum and tie it to inflation so that it goes up 3-5% every year.

If a job can’t sustain life, it shouldn’t be called a job, it should be called for what it is, it isn’t indentured servitude or financial slavery but it’s something. It’s a system of control based on limiting resources. They pay you just enough to maybe need a little debt to get by and so that you’ll keep coming back to work or end up homeless.

Only a percentage of the cost for a product comes from labor, so maybe prices will go up, but it won’t be more than the raise in your wages. WIll some jobs go away? I hope so. Will more jobs come in to fill the gap because of people’s increased spending power? Most definitely.


Monday, August 12, 2019

Our Military

We spend the most, so we should have the best right?

The US Government pulls in about $3.6T in tax revenue and spend about $700B of that on the military. It’s about 20%. Imagine taking 20% of your paycheck and buying guns with it.

I’m not a general, I’ve never fought a war but I do know that $700B is a lot of money.

Do we need it? I don’t think so. We have nukes. We’re not going to invade any country for their land so why do we need such a large standing army? About 1.4M personnel. That’s kind of crazy too, 0.33% of our population gets 20% of our tax revenue. Sure, money goes to buying bombs and stuff but it all ends up in their hands.

As with a lot of things, we need to do better.


Sunday, August 11, 2019

The US Economy

Do you have six months of your monthly expenses in your bank account? Most Americans don’t. Actually, most Americans are living paycheck to paycheck. What happens when that paycheck disappears?

The news says the economy is great, that employment is at record highs. There are 130 million full-time workers and 230M working-age adults. But sure, record-level unemployment is a thing.

We need to stop and ask who is telling us a story before we believe it at face value. I don’t know when the next recession is coming but I do know that when jobs start getting cut it’s going to be a domino effect like we’ve never seen.


Saturday, August 10, 2019

Race

60 years ago laws were passed so that we could not be discriminated against based on race for certain things. Just this year Facebook had to pay a fine for racial discrimination for the way they let people advertise housing.

We can’t all get along. Most of us can, no doubt, probably 99% of people hold no racial prejudice that would cause them to get violent.

But it’s not just vocalized racism that affects us. It’s the judge giving people of color longer sentences than their European American counterparts for the same crime. It’s the hiring manager giving the entry-level job to the person that looks most like them. It’s 45 presidents, and only one being of color. It’s doctors not giving minorities the same level of care than others.

Everyone has the right to feel however they want to feel, but when it turns into actions that are harming others, we need to do better. 


Friday, August 9, 2019

Public Transportation


The chicken or the egg?

Ridesharing companies understood that they needed drivers on the road before anyone would use their app.

Why can’t city and transportation planners see that we need more frequent buses for there to be more riders?

Maybe because there's no incentive to actually be better at their job. If a year goes by and management can't show that they're getting drivers to switch over to the bus system at an acceptable rate, we should fire them. We're going to keep getting what we're allowing. Traffic and pollution will only get worse unless those who are supposed to be responsible do their job.


Thursday, August 8, 2019

Pollution

Pollution is a big problem. Almost everything we consume goes through a manufacturing process and those processes create waste. This is one of the main reasons that I’ve undertaken the practice of minimalism.

Since the beginning of the year, I have purchased two items from Goodwill and nothing else besides food.

Fashion is one of the largest polluters in the world. Look it up if you didn’t know and brace yourself.

Meat is another terrible polluter. I’m not a vegetarian and I probably will never be but my beef consumption is way down, maybe a pound per month.

Driving, I’m blessed to not have a job that requires it or a family that needs chauffeuring, if I need a car, I’ll rent one. Public transportation isn’t great and I think there is a lot of room for improvement.


Wednesday, August 7, 2019

Climate Change

People that have little motivation to lie say it is.
People with an enormous motivation to lie say it isn’t.

Who should we believe?

I’m going to believe that releasing chemicals into the air that you’d never allow to be pumped into your home is bad. I’m going to believe what I see, ice melting and record-setting temperatures.

Climate scientists say emissions and animal raising are leading causes so I’m going to use public transportation as much as possible and consume less animals. I’m going to spread the word, and hope that you can spread it as well.


Tuesday, August 6, 2019

Guns

When the 2nd amendment was written matters. Civilians could have the same weapons as the government. Weapons have changed a lot since, and the current level of disproportionate firepower is abysmal. We’re arguing over rifles and guns that fire too fast, while the government controls nuclear bombs. As far as weapons go, I think we should make moves toward how it used to be.

The majority of Americans want mandatory background checks, seeing how this hasn’t happened, it shows how our government officials are not doing what the populace wants.

Because of the technological advancements, I think we need testing and continuing education for gun safety. If you need continuing education to sell life insurance, you should need it for firearms too.

If someone is negligent with their gun and a crime is committed with it, I think that the owner should be legally responsible as well.

These weapons can inflict a lot of damage and as much as I’m for the right to keep and bear almost any arm, we have to do something politically. When our politicians take money from this industry, there’s inarguably blood on their hands.


Monday, August 5, 2019

Mass Shootings

Mass shootings are around 2% of all gun deaths.

One problem is that the people that want gun control won't move to areas where the people don't. As long as we live in a republic and not a true democracy, the majority doesn’t necessarily rule the minority and these shootings will continue to happen.

Another is the NRA and other groups giving money to lawmakers. As long as we allow organizations and corporations contribute to lawmakers they will influence our laws.

What’s the solution? Maybe it’s accountability. If someone uses your gun to commit a crime, the gun owner does the time too. We’re allowing people to own weapons of local destruction, more accountability is required.

Lawmakers, our congress and senate have to be replaced one person at a time. If this matters, and it’s not just to sell ads, then let’s start getting them out.

My final thoughts, for hundreds of thousands of years humans knew and respected the dangers around them. Your personal safety is your duty, until this society is completely at peace, stay vigilant.


Sunday, August 4, 2019

The Plan For Oil

What seems to be happening, at least to me.

The owners and influential want to secure and control energy. Presently, oil is the easiest to control. Wind, solar and other options, therefore need to be slowed down as much as acceptable. They can’t be completely stopped or there will be suspicion.

Their foreign strategy is to keep oil reserves that are closest to home as unused as possible. Keep South America destabilized so that we can get the oil in Venezuela when we need it. Keep the Middle East in constant conflict and take their oil as fast and as easily as possible.

They’ll deplete the Middle East first, maybe Russia, Venezuela and finally the USA's supply.

Yep, that’s it.


Saturday, August 3, 2019

Thou Shall Not Judge

But we all do, all day, it’s what dictates our actions. How many times have you learned from other people’s mistakes and made a change in your actions or an avoidance of some sort? 

So should it be, “Thou shall not overtly tell others of your judgment on them?” It’s better I guess, but they can still see in your actions that you’re judging them. Maybe it’s best instead, to have a discussion. Explain why you do or don’t do what you do or don’t do. 


Friday, August 2, 2019

When to Keep Silent

You don’t always need to speak or add something. With age I’ve found silence is sometimes an appropriate reaction. You don’t always have to respond.

I remember when someone would tell a story and I’d have to explain my similar experience, sometimes taking away from what my friend had told me. Now, a lot of times, I’ll let them keep that moment. It’s not about me, it’s about them. When someone says that they just tried something, instead of saying you have done that already, ask how they liked it, get more out of them before you tell your stories, if ever.

Your input isn't always needed.


Thursday, August 1, 2019

Application Over Information

The problem with information is that there is now enough out there to consume every second of your life.

The future is in the hands of those that apply what they learn.

Learn enough, and then act. Learn as you go as much as possible but always be effective.

Sharpen the ax, of course, but don’t forget to start chopping before your time is up.


Wednesday, July 31, 2019

Nobody Is Holding You Back

Are there arms around you? No. Is someone actively sabotaging your efforts? No. Are they talking shit? That’s different.

They’re using their words to disagree with you or to pass judgment on you. Why give them power? If you need someone else’s approval to be happy you’ve already lost. If you keep talking about a struggle that doesn’t seem to exist, you lost. Who benefits when we give power to a seemingly nonexistent problem?





Tuesday, July 30, 2019

Repeat What Works

Have you been successful somewhere and thought time to change?

Imagine if Steve stopped at iPods or Bill stopped at windows 95.

Where are you stopping instead of persisting?



Monday, July 29, 2019

Easy For You To Say

People say things like:
“If you had kids you’d understand. 
That’s easy for you because…
If I had that opportunity I would have…”

We all seem to know exactly what others should be doing. How come then, is it so difficult for us to know what we should be doing sometimes?

Whatever your answer, work against it. It’s so easy to slip into the what if, work on the what now. 

Sunday, July 28, 2019

It Starts With I

I.

I what?

I will, I won’t, but surely, I must. In order to live we must take actions. What’s the point? That’s personal. 

For me, the point is a better life for those on earth. Do I know better than everyone? No, but I know that no sane person would ask for poison to be pumped into their home. But earth is home and we let poison get pumped into Earth everyday. 

Today, I will make more thoughtful actions.

Saturday, July 27, 2019

Today Is It


Most likely not, but for millions, today is it. Even though you have a long life to live don’t let that be an excuse to not achieve something today. Whatever it is, no matter how seemingly insignificant, progress is progress.




Do the things.

Friday, July 26, 2019

Processed Sugar is a Drug

The definition of a Schedule I Drug in the U.S.
  1. The drug or other substance has a high potential for abuse.
  2. The drug or other substance has no currently accepted medical treatment use in the U.S.
  3. It has a lack of accepted safety for use under medical supervision.
Sugar’s application 
  1. The way people consume it to excess is evident by our health issues and its wide use in many food items. Once you start eating sugar it’s hard to stop. It's readily available with no age restrictions.
  2. Processed Sugar doesn’t promote health at all, Sugar is toxic in the blood stream which is why the pancreas produces insulin, which prompts cells to absorb blood Sugar for energy or storage.
  3. I don’t know any doctor that would see a symptom and say, "Processed Sugar is the solution."
It’s clear to see how this qualifies. I’m not saying it’s only Sugar that’s causing our health issues, but as with almost everything, there are multiple causes. The number one reason for preventable death in America is heart disease. Obesity and nutrition are causes for heart disease. If we want to solve our problems we must go to the source. 


Thursday, July 25, 2019

Too Much Freedom?

Your elected officials think so. Why else would they have to pass new laws every year? 

What’s a law? A limitation on what used to be legal. More laws usually means less freedom. 

I don’t know what the solution is exactly, but I know electing officials that receive money from large corporations isn’t it. 

Wednesday, July 24, 2019

Why Nothing Is Free

Everything has a carrying cost.

I was offered a free shirt and I turned it down. The person said “it’s free,” insistently. “How strange, why won’t this guy take the free stuff?” she probably thought.

Everything has costs above and beyond acquisition. Even storage of a T-shirt, minimal sure, but if you have enough shirts, what’s the point in another that you don’t plan on wearing?

Mental storage has a cost too. Now I have to think about this shirt, keep track of it, etc.

Tuesday, July 23, 2019

Consistently Me

Recently I’ve heard that we should have a different persona for everyone we meet. They used their children as an example, they’re different around their kids than they are when they’re in a business meeting. I get it but at the same time, I take issue.

I take issue with the fact that people want you to act or dress a certain way, you walk into a bank and the guys have suits on, why? Because that’s the way it’s been done. Well here’s what I know, without doubt, how things are done never lasts.

Monday, July 22, 2019

Wearing My Seatbelt

I’ll wear my seatbelt. Some people don’t, they say they drive safely. Slowly, so it’s no big deal. Whatever. I’ll wear mine just in case. Thanks.

Sunday, July 21, 2019

Recently Relationshiped

You never asked them out, and now they’re posting pictures with their significant other. Sometimes it hurts to ask, but unless you have a preexisting friendship that will be put in jeopardy what’s the downside?

Rejection is part of a well-lived life, imagine never hearing no, it’d mean you never tested the boundaries.

If it’d hurt to see them go, then you owe it to yourself to try.

Saturday, July 20, 2019

Dear Minorities

If you don’t want to be told what to do, this message isn’t for you. I’m telling you to be good.

Stop breaking the law. Work to change the law. If you break the law your likelihood of getting in trouble is way higher than if you were part of the majority. So for the same crime, you have less of a chance of a positive outcome. Be smart about it.

The system isn’t racist, there are racist people in it. The government isn’t racist, it’s what we allow. People marched, boycotted and died for what we have. What has your contribution been? I know I haven’t done enough, I’m betting most haven’t either.

Friday, July 19, 2019

What Do They Want?

Henry Ford said if he asked people what they wanted, they’d have said a faster horse. What they really would have said is they wanted a faster, more reliable and less expensive mode of transportation. But that isn’t as catchy.

People say stuff like, “Make something that people don’t know they need yet.” As if there are new necessities to life. As far as I’m concerned, there are no more necessities. Food, water, shelter, clothing, and arguably connection. Everything else is simply nice to have.

Thursday, July 18, 2019

Youth, Not Time

It Isn’t time that’s the most valuable resource, it’s youth. Ask any billionaire if they’d give all their money up to be 18 again. You’d be surprised at how many of them would go for it.

You’re as young as you’ll ever be right now, don’t squander it on regrets.

Wednesday, July 17, 2019

You Have to Eat

Or what? You’ll die? After how long?
Don’t listen to people that don’t have what you want regarding that specific topic.  My longest fast is just over 100 hours, I didn’t die and only broke it because my muscles started cramping so I knew it was time to eat.

The single person always has relationship advice and the glutton always wants to tell you how to eat. Find your specific role models, that have what you want and do what they’ve done.

Monday, July 15, 2019

Architects of Our Own Adversity

Do we make life harder than it has to be? I know I have. But because I can acknowledge that I’m making things more difficult I’m able to make them easier as well. 

Sometimes life will happen and a situation will seem insurmountable. It either is or isn’t. If it truly is, tough break. But more than likely it isn’t. So instead of wallowing, why not ponder? See the solutions and take action. 

Wants vs. needs plays a big role, always remember what’s actually required for life and what’s just nice to have. 

Sunday, July 14, 2019

Getting What You Want

First, define what you want. 

Second, find out who has what you want. 

Third, ask them how they got it. 

Four, strategize and determine if what they did would work for you. 

Repeat steps as needed until you can make a plan that will work for you. 

Saturday, July 13, 2019

You Owe Nothing

Owe means to have an obligation to repay or pay something for what has been received. Do you owe something to your parents for having you and doing their “best” or probably not their best? This alone, as the title says, I think not. You don’t owe anything to your parents. They had you and helped you for selfish reasons. It made them feel good to create something, so they did.

When you are thinking of what you want to do in your life, you can’t worry about how it will make your parents feel. Unless you’re using their money, then that’s a different discussion but one you should have before taking a dollar. If they want you to be a doctor but won’t be going $200,000 into debt for a 10 year program, and doing the work, good for them, but you don’t owe them your future.

If you have a goal, and they don’t like it, too bad for them, you have to live your life on your terms and seek your own happiness. 

Friday, July 12, 2019

It’s Not For You

You’re perfect. You already know everything. You’re doing it. This isn’t for you. 

I do this for the person in need of guidance. If I could grab my 18 year-old shoulder and speak from the heart, these are the words I’d say. 

Maybe I wouldn’t listen, definitely not at first. But after a year of everyday content, I might have. You can’t change your past but you can change your future. Start today. Do the things. Find that 18 year old in your life and speak from the heart until they listen. 

If this is for you, be the difference. 

Thursday, July 11, 2019

If Everyone is Special

Then everyone is special. 

The fallacy that keeps being repeated starts off with the same premise but concludes that nobody is special. 

You are special. 

Wednesday, July 10, 2019

The Way Things Were

Eventually, we’ll say “that’s the way things were.” Can we hurry up and change then? If we know it’s coming, can we fast forward?

I long for the day that these and many more are true:
We used to put people in cages for flowers. No longer.
We used to put people in cages for trading sex for money. No longer.
We used to put money ahead of everything. No longer.
We used to pollute the earth. No longer.

Tuesday, July 9, 2019

Blackout Drunk

I knew I had to stop when I woke up in a jail cell. I’ve driven drunk before when I was out but never caused much damage. Maybe a scratch on the car or something. I’d wake up in a parking lot a mile from the event I was at. At least I knew better than to try to drive all the way home.

This time was different. I was home, safe, no reason to leave but I blacked out and got behind the wheel. Enough is enough. Nobody was hurt, but if I let this happen again, that may change. Certain things aren’t for certain people, alcohol isn’t for me.

Monday, July 8, 2019

The Smart Get Smarter

Knowledge is powerful and synergetic. Your understanding builds on top of itself. The smarter you get the smarter you’re able to get. Your best gets better.

I don’t know if the opposite is true, but day after day without self improvement means what? Do something today that you can build on tomorrow.

Sunday, July 7, 2019

Where to Next?

Amazon knows. Netflix knows. Do you know?

Sears kept trying to sell stuff that people didn’t want. Toys R Us refused to lower prices and figure out how to grow. CD making factories shuttered because they thought the means to consume music was done evolving. Don’t be the person who ordered that last million VHS players right before DVD players went mainstream.

Saturday, July 6, 2019

All Connected

I don’t usually care what people do with their time. What they do with stuff though, that gets me. We waste too much. If someone says what they consume doesn’t affect others, they have to know that isn’t true.

If your actions, consume resources then they affect other people. What’s best isn’t what we’re doing, we know this and it isn’t going to change. But, and it’s a very important but, we can do better. Do.

Friday, July 5, 2019

Bring Your Own Napkin

Plastic grocery bags will soon be outlawed across the nation. Straws too. What about napkins? We already use enough paper in the bathroom, why must we bring it to the dining table?

Cloth napkins are a thing, better to be the first than the last.

Thursday, July 4, 2019

Trust in Government

Why don’t we trust the government?

I like to distinguish between government and government officials. Government is the system we allow and officials are the people elected or hired.

I don’t trust some government officials because they take money from corporations and then pay them back with favorable contracts and regulations or lack thereof.

I don’t trust the system we have because it allows people, that aren’t elected officials, for example, police officers to cage other people based on laws that were very quickly passed but have proven embarrassingly slow to remove.

The system is flawed, almost everyone agrees changes are needed and YET our officials do nothing. What the fuck? The few rule the many.

So that’s it, just a short blurb on something that is probably going to be much bigger.

Wednesday, July 3, 2019

Give More

Life isn’t free, on the surface, it sure looks that way. But every breath we draw comes at the expense of the lives sacrificed before us. Gratitude, therefore, seems more an obligation than a nicety.

I guess some people don’t care, I can’t be one of those people. Every day people are giving more than they’re getting and that gap in reciprocity is how society functions. Thank you to the person giving more than they receive.

Tuesday, July 2, 2019

Pandering vs. Singing

Pandering to an audience is one thing, singing to the choir is another.

If you mean what you’re saying, you’re probably on the right path. Saying what the audience wants to hear but not being sincere, is another story. Whenever you’re making art you have to answer the question of who’s it for.

Is this for you or is it for someone else? If it’s for you, then as long as you feel good about it, great. If you’re making it for someone else, think of them first.

If it’s for someone else, look to what they’re consuming already and respect their choices.

You can pander, and probably get away with it for a while, but what I’ve found is the truth always comes out and if you’re on the wrong side of it, you may find future success impossible. If you want something sustainable, believe in what you’re doing.

Monday, July 1, 2019